While consensual $3x t@p£ can be a fun and exciting way for consenting adults to explore their sexuality, there are several risks and considerations that should be taken into account before engaging in such activities.
It is essential to carefully consider the potential consequences, legal implications, and personal and professional risks before creating or sharing any such content.
Ultimately, the decision to create or participate in consensual $3x t@p£s should be made only after careful consideration and with the full informed consent of all parties involved.
One of the primary concerns with consensual sex tapes is the potential for the videos to be shared without the consent of the individuals involved.
Once a video is created, it can be easily shared online or through messaging apps, and it can be difficult to control who sees the content.
This can lead to embarrassment, harassment, or even harm to the individuals involved, especially if the video is shared widely or becomes public.
Dr Laura Vowels, principal researcher and therapist at s3x therapy app Blueheart, has shared her advice on what couples need to think about before they wade into the waters of X-rated video.
Don’t rush into it
Dr Laura suggests that there needs to be a high level of trust between you and your paramour, given that you’ll need to rely on each other to keep the tape private.
She adds: ‘I would advise having a conversation with your partner to make sureyou’re both equally interested in making a s3x t@pe, and that neither of you feels pressured to film.
‘This activity should be a mutual decision that you’re both happy with.’
Agree on the content ahead of time.
As with unrecorded s£x, it’s important to establish what your boundaries are.
‘I would advise asking your partner whether they want to incorporate certain s3x toys, positions or role-play scenes into the tape,’ says Dr Laura.
‘It’s also important to discuss the intended length of filming, and whether either of you would want to experiment with different filming angles.
‘Having these conversations beforehand will help you and your partner avoid any conflict and feelings of anxiety or discomfort during filming.’
Try foreplay before the camera starts rolling
Dr Laura says this can help you get into the mood and combat any nerves you might be experiencing.
‘Getting in the mood before you start recording is especially important if one or both of you is feeling nervous,’ she advises.
‘Make sure you both feel connected and intimate as a couple before the camera starts rolling; you could begin by playing with each other, or kissing and cuddling.
‘This will make sure you’re both feeling relaxed and turned on before filming, which will make for a more comfortable and pleasurable experience.’
However, if the nerves are really getting to you, remember that could be a sign that recording a s£x t@pe just isn’t for you right now or possibly ever, so listen to your feelings.
Don’t Overproduce
All that said, it’s important to keep it casual. A sex tape should be as spontaneous as you can make it. Otherwise, that shit gets creepy fast. What you really, really don’t want is to make your girlfriend feel like she’s starring in a porno.
Yes, she technically is, but there is a big difference between an intimate tape meant for only the two of you and, well, a porno, you know?
Don’t make her feel like you’re trying to make film history, otherwise she’ll wonder – probably correctly – just who you’re planning to let see it.
Protect your tape
Once you’ve done the deed, security is key.
‘After you’ve finished filming, try to avoid saving your video to cloud storage platforms, as these can easily be hacked,’ says Dr Laura.
‘It’s best to store it in a safe, password-protected place and to reset the passwords that lead to its location, to ensure that you alone are the only one with access to it.
‘Additionally, if you want to wipe the video from your device, double-check that it’s been securely deleted from recycling bins or phone storage
